January 07, 2009
relationships
i just wonder, why do youngsters like to go into a relationship at such a young age....
isit because of peer pressure? to meet one's desires?
i feel that going into a relationship is a very serious matter.
this is because both parties need to take time off to spend with each other..
maybe at least once a week, the couple will meet up together to have meals..chat..shop..
when one is not ready and he/she just jump into the relationship with the opposite gender....
that relationship might not work out well.
i have heard that some friends who have 2-3 Exs.
these aren't matters to boost about.
i feel that when one at a mature age to date.. maybe in the mid-twenties..
both gender will be able to understand each other better...and thus reduce the tendency of breakups.
breakups are the most undesired event to happen in one's life. some may take a long time to recover ( the broken heart) whereas some are already numb against the pain.
well, sometimes i have feelings of wanting to get attached.
i had my first ever CRUSH when i was in sec 3.
sometimes i will think of me and the guy together..
(come to think of it, i feel abit childish now..haha..)
but i have my pirorities set straight..
no going into realtionships till i am done with university. =)
some may think that i am crazy.. but i am not.
i just want to find the right guy for myself.